For people navigating leadership, faith, and what’s next.
Essays and reflections for those who carry responsibility—leaders, spouses, parents, and servants of others. No hype. Just clarity, hope, and wise next steps.
I’ve spent over three decades as a pastor, financial professional, missions leader, and coach—walking with people through leadership pressure, spiritual fatigue, financial rebuilding, and major life transitions.
I write for the person who’s doing their best… and still feels the weight. My hope is to help you slow down, see clearly, and take the next faithful step.
The “weather sweet spot” of life doesn’t last long. The question is whether we notice it—and whether we cherish it—before it’s gone.
Read the essayStart with whatever meets you today.
Short, practical reflections—built to encourage without overwhelming you.
All It Takes Is One
Most change doesn’t come from massive overhaul. It comes from one faithful step taken consistently.
ReadCould the Grass Really Be Greener?
Sometimes “stay put” is wisdom. Other times it’s fear dressed up as faithfulness.
ReadWhen Life Feels Like Lucy’s Conveyor Belt
When the pace keeps speeding up, clarity often begins with a single honest pause.
ReadA word about the writer.
I’m Roy Duffey. I’ve spent over three decades serving as a pastor, financial professional, missions leader, and coach—walking with people through leadership pressure, spiritual fatigue, financial recovery, and major life transitions.
I write to encourage clarity, faithfulness, and wise next steps—especially for those who quietly carry a lot.
The VONA Process
Much of what I write (and how I coach) is shaped by a simple framework I call the VONA Process. It helps clarify what matters, name obstacles honestly, discern next steps, and move forward with intention.
Vision & Values
VObstacles & Opportunities
ONow & Next
NActions & Accountability
AIf you want to go deeper.
I still coach and speak—but the writing comes first. If you’d like help applying these ideas to your real life, here are a few ways.
Coaching
One-on-one clarity and discernment for leaders, couples, and individuals navigating transition and responsibility.
Start a conversationRetreats
Custom retreats designed to strengthen leaders and servants of the Gospel—practical, encouraging, and renewing.
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Faith-rooted teaching for churches and leadership gatherings, focused on clarity, stewardship, and hope.
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No pressure. No pitch. Just a conversation.