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The Day After

Why What Happens After the Celebration Matters Most Yesterday was Thanksgiving. And if your day looked anything like mine, it was full—full table, full hearts, maybe too-full stomachs. There were moments when I looked around and thought, “This. This is good.” We laughed. We passed dishes. We remembered out loud what God has done. For […]

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What If?

“Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us.” — Ephesians 3:20 (NIV) The Question That Changes Everything A seven-year-old grandson asked his grandfather, “Papa, what if dinosaurs came back?” Before he could answer, his grandson was already

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What Would You Do?

💰 Imagine This: No More Limits Let’s say you woke up tomorrow to news that you’d won a mega lottery. (You may, like us, not play—but just go with it.) At first, it’s easy to imagine what you’d do: But then what? Seriously—once the dust settles, and your lifestyle is as good as you could

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This Is Now

🩺 A Doctor’s Unexpected Epiphany Years ago, back when I worked as a pharmaceutical rep, I regularly called on a doctor who could best be described as… melancholy.Capable? Yes. Kind? Certainly. But cheerful? Rarely. Until one day, everything felt different. He greeted me with a genuine smile. His voice was lighter. His whole demeanor seemed

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Cherish the Sweet Spots

🌤️ Sweet Spots and Missed Moments The past several mornings, despite increasing afternoon temps, have been fairly cool. Refreshingly pleasant—especially considering what is assuredly approaching. It’s kind of a “weather sweet spot.” But I realized something one morning as I sat inside writing, while it was absolutely perfect outside: Am I cherishing these sweet spots…

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All It Takes Is One 

☀️ Chasing the “Good Life” Most of us are chasing something. A better future. A more meaningful life. A version of ourselves we know we’re capable of becoming. We want to live “the good life”—to walk in our calling, to love well, to leave a legacy. And honestly, it’s a noble pursuit. But if you’re

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Life Is Short… Or Is It?

⏱️ The Strange Illusion of Time “Son, it goes by fast… so enjoy it.” My dad said that often. And now, at 55, I can see it. It really does feel like just yesterday that I was in high school.Or standing at the altar. Or holding our first child. But here’s the math that doesn’t

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Longing for What You Already Have

The Restlessness That Won’t Let Go Darren Hardy once shared a parable that hit me in the heart.It was about a successful, happily-married, middle-aged woman who just… felt something was missing. Life looked great on paper, yet a quiet restlessness kept tugging at her soul. In the parable, a character in similar circumstances sets out

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